The factor
that acts as a hurdle for most in chasing
their dream is a lack of self-confidence. Lack of self-confidence is not the problem of one or
two individual but more than 50% of population undergoes fear and anxiety in
performing several tasks due to lack of self-confidence. Mostly at the time of public
speaking or group talks, most of them prefer remaining silent than delivering
out their thoughts or views. So the first question you probably have is how to
raise self-confidence?
Raising self-confidence doesn’t mean that you get rid
of your fears; rather it means that you learn the way to subsides your fear and
get victory over it. So here are 8 ways to raise self-confidence that can turn out to be helpful for everyone.
1. POSITIVE THINKING:
Flush the negative thought and build space for positivity in your brain.
Sometimes even though you look good but due to lack of self-confidence you tend to feel uncomfortable in a group. Likewise, though you have prepared a good speech
for public speaking due to the fear of facing people your confidence gets
lowered and all your hard-word goes in
vain. So to avoid this situation, you need to first build positive
thoughts in your brain. Once you do this, even in difficult situation you
will remain strong, motivated and determined. Negative thoughts are like an
infection to the brain that slowly lowers the confidence and keeps you
isolated. So, try looking the positive side of every situation and success will
be on your way.
2. WORK ON SMALL ACTIVITIES:
Not every time only big
achievements provide happiness, rather small success also provides satisfaction
and happiness. Also, small success helps
to raise self-confidence. It is also said
that with small success comes gives achievements.
3. REMAIN ACTIVE:
Keep doing something or the other.
Always remain active and work on your creativity. Sooner or later you will get
success. So even though what other people say, just remain focused and don’t
let negative though occupy your mind.
4. SPEAK CLEARLY AND SLOWLY:
Speaking is another skill that
shows your confidence and positive attitude. So whenever you speak make sure
that the words are clear and audible. So you need to go slow while conveying
any information. Don’t speed up because speaking fast and unclearly shows
fearfulness and anxiety.
5. KEEP SMILING:
Sadness and smile are two facile
gestures that reflect what is going on
you. If you are tensed or worried that gets reflected in your face likewise if
you are confident you will wear a smile on your face. So, even if you are a
scared dog from inside act like a bold and courageous tiger from outside, this
will automatically boost up your self-confidence in any task that you perform.
6. BE
POLITE AND KIND:
Many times due to lowered self-confidence you may not be able to give
100% in the task due to which some people may provide negative feedback. But
don’t let this lower your confidence rather take it as a challenge and work on
it to prove your skill. Be polite even to those people who provide negative
feedback because it’s ok to commit mistakes and you learn from the mistakes
only.
7. GROOM AND DRESS YOURSELF:
Sometimes it becomes important to bring some changes on how you look.
Grooming and changing your getup brings
confidence in your work and develops a positive
attitude. It is well said that you need to adapt changes depending on the
present situation. So, if you want to raise self-confidence, bringing some
changes in your look can really be helpful.
8. DISCOVER YOURSELF:
Sometimes you are asked to
participate in those things that you completely dislike. You might be asked to
do things that are out of your comfort zone. So it is important that you
discover your likes, creativity and
interest. Once you do this, you will be able to take the task that you like and
put 100% dedication to it. Most importantly when the work is of your interest,
your self-confidence will bloom up and
you are able to perform even the complicated work.
These are 8 ways to raise self-confidence
so that you can conquer the world with your innovation, hard-work and creativity.
Summary:
Is your self-confidence lowered? Is this the hurdle for your
achievements? Read these 10 ways to raise self-confidence
and apply it to feel the positive changes inside you.
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